The Fear of Failure

by Joshua Rhoades

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One definition of Failure is “the lack of success”. Many times, one may have a fear of failing with a project or task. Yet the greater loss is to not even try at all. It is important to use the same definition of failure and success that the Lord uses. It will remove unneeded pressures and strain that will only hinder you from accomplishing your task. 

In Matthew 25, the parable of the 3 servants being given talents by the master is given. The first two servants work and invest their talents, and both reap bountifully. The third servant states in verse 25 “And I was afraid  and went and hid thy talent in the earth: lo, there thou hast that is thine.” The third servant didn’t even try. In not trying, he showed disrespect to the master by digging in the earth and hiding the talent to not be used at all. 

The first two servants had as much possibility in failing as the third servant. What was the difference? They took a step forward into the unknown and tried and the third servant spent more effort to not take a chance, than if he had. 

How many times have we been afraid and froze? Fear can result in guaranteed failure. When we act in fear, we make poor decisions. The servant was afraid and dug a hole in the ground to hide the talent. What holes have we dug, to not use the talent we have been given? 

We have a single rule that we practice in our home. It is “Honor the Lord”. Our behavior, desires, practices, decision making on an hourly, daily, weekly, yearly basis is Honor the Lord. I don’t read in Matthew 25, of the servants complaining of the amount of talent given to them. They simply took the talent that was given and after working with what they had, ended with more and the Master was glad. Don’t be afraid of making mistakes. One man stated, “Movement Causes Friction”. May there be much movement on the part of the Christian to use their talents for the Lord! May we display Biblical boldness and defy the fear of Failure and do a work for the Master!

The Fellowship of the Fisherman

by Joshua Rhoades

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Luke 5:7 And they beckoned unto [their] partners, which were in the other ship, that they should come and help them. 

I read this passage and a word jumped out at me and caused me to start to think. “Partner”, this word can be described as a collaborator. It can be further described as an associate in an activity or endeavor or sphere of common interest; especially one in which the associates both participate in the profits or benefits. These men found themselves in need of help from others. These men found it helpful even needful to have partners in their calling as professional fishermen. The task grew larger than they were able to continue with effectively.

            First of all, I see their signaling. They called, they beckoned to their partners that were in another ship other than their own. The word “beckoned” means to signal, to communicate silently and non-verbally by signals or signs. What is the first thing you or I would have done? We would made lots of noise to let everyone know what you had gotten a hold of. That is because we are not seasoned fisherman. These men knew their trade and knew it well. With experience in this field, they knew that other ships were fishing in the same area. They didn’t sound the battle cry and take selfies to post on social media. They used non-verbal forms of communication to express their desire to help. Do we have the wisdom to do the same? Do we have the wisdom to know that it is ok to ask for help from the brethren? Do we have the experience in our walk with the Lord to communicate with each other appropriately in each situation?

            Secondly, I see the sharing in the burden and task at hand. The word “partner” is used in this verse. The definition is “sharing in, participating in, an associate in an activity or endeavor or sphere of common interest; especially one in which the associates both participate in the profits or benefits.” When one shares in something, one becomes vested in that endeavor. I remember our Gospel Tent Crusades in Guyana were blessed a large part because we “beckoned” to sister churches to come and partner with us in the evangelistic efforts. The communities around us are watching how churches treat each other. Cities around our country are watching if and when there is sharing in working together. I am reminded of Galatians 6:2 which states “Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.” Much of the mission work accomplished around the world is because of churches sharing and partnering for the Gospel to be taken to the ends of the world. For these fisherman to beckon to their partners who were also fishing, tells me that each boat was aware of other boats trying to do the same thing and that is catch fish! Guess who reaped the joy of bringing the nets of fish forth? Every single fisherman and boat that responded to being beckoned to for help. When we beckon for help in the ministry, others are blessed as well. Who has benefited because of partnering with you in their walk with the Lord? What harvest is being reaped because of your enablement of their work in the field, in the boat, here at home or in countries around the world? Whose burden are you sharing? Whose load is lighter because of yoking up with you? 

            Lastly, the text states “come and help them”. I see the seizing that took place. Here in Luke 5:7, the word “help” means to seize, apprehend, arrest, to give help or assistance; be of service. The help that was requested in having an active and full participation. Every time I hear or read the word “seizing”, I think of the U. S. Border Patrol agents or our U.S. Coast Guard seizing illegal contraband that is being attempted to be smuggled into our borders. This help is an effort that distinctly handles a situation, to give chase and strenuous effort which results in great accomplishment. This word help teaches me that the party that requests assistance is strengthened by my response to their beckoning of me. Who has been blessed because you came to their assistance? Who has used wisdom and experience in contacting you in asking for help? Verse 7 closes with both ships being filled, so that they began to sink, not that they did sink, only began. Today, think of who is being “helped” by you. Are both of your ships filled? Are they filled so that “they begin to sink”? 

            I believe that if we would be looking actively in the Word of God for the Holy Spirit to be “signaling” us, we would grow in our sharing of the “great multitude of fishes”. It would be because we have “seized”, we have chosen to help. May one learn to realize that both parties are blessed when one beckons us to help. May we seize/help in grabbing hold of more nets that great harvest of the goodness of God may be reaped. Times may have changed, but the task has not. 

And Hast Not Withheld Thy Son, Thine Only Son.

by Joshua Rhoades

This past week, I finished reading Genesis. One of the chapters that I was compelled to study further was Genesis 22. The Holy Spirit led me to the phrase in verse 12 which states, “seeing thou hast not withheld thy son, thine only son from me” and verse 16 which states, “and hast not withheld thy son, thine only son.” The Lord knows all yet draws our attention to the fact that He had asked for Abraham to sacrifice “thine only son”. Abraham was known for the blessings of God being upon his home. He was a wealthy man, yet Abraham was asked to travel several days in the wilderness, climb a mountain, then slit his only son’s throat and offer a burnt sacrifice to the Lord. Yet in the asking, we see afterwards the Lord’s acknowledgment. God lets Abraham know aloud, of the fact of the rarity of son’s in Abraham’s old age. Abraham learned valuable lessons in this experience, yet God confirmed to Abraham that “I know I asked the most that I have ever asked, and you sacrificially offered him to me”. Of all the wealth that the Lord had bestowed upon Abraham, yet God asked for Isaac, “thine only son”. There have been a number of times in my life when I’ve asked the Lord questions to circumstances that I did not understand. There have been times when I learned that my wife and I were going to bury our stillborn son on New Year’s Eve. Questions, emotions all over the map, what is the purpose I ask? I take comfort in knowing that God looked down from heaven and saw Abraham, Isaac, and Sarah, and knew that he would be asking Abraham to give what was most rare and precious to their family. I take comfort in knowing that Almighty God also gave His only begotten Son to be sacrificed. It wasn’t a waste, but so that we could be washed “from our sins in his own blood.” 

Abraham would gain through Isaac’s life, the future nation of Israel. When we give to God, when we sacrifice to God that which is most precious in our lives, we gain more than we gave. 

The Fear of Failure

by Joshua Rhoades

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One definition of failure is “the lack of success.” Many times, one may have a fear of failing with a project or task, yet the greater loss is to not try at all. It is important to use the same definition of failure and success that the Lord uses because it will remove unneeded pressures and strain that will only hinder you from accomplishing your task. 

In Matthew 25, the parable of the 3 servants being given talents by the master is given. The first two servants work and invest their talents and both reap bountifully. The third servant states in verse 25, “And I was afraid and went and hid thy talent in the earth: lo, there thou hast that is thine.” The third servant didn’t even try. In not trying, he showed disrespect to the master by digging in the earth and hiding the talent to not be used at all. 

The first two servants had as much possibility in failing as the third servant. What was the difference? They took a step forward into the unknown and tried and the third servant spent more effort to not take a chance, than if he had. 

How many times have we been afraid and froze? Fear can result in guaranteed failure. When we act in fear, we make poor decisions. The servant was afraid and dug a hole in the ground to hide the talent. What holes have we dug, to not use the talent we have been given? 

We have a single rule that we practice in our home which is “Honor the Lord.” Our behavior, desires, practices, and decision making on an hourly, daily, weekly, and yearly basis is to Honor the Lord. In Matthew 25, I don’t read of the servants complaining of the amount of talent given to them. They simply took the talent that was given and after working with what they had, ended with more and the Master was glad. Don’t be afraid of making mistakes. One man stated, “Movement causes friction.” May there be much movement on the part of the Christian to use their talents for the Lord! May we display Biblical boldness and defy the fear of failure and do a work for the Master!